Success is available for everyone, in pretty much any amount they want. Most folks, either on their own, or with a bit of help from a loved one or a coach, can achieve the success they are dreaming of. We make such a big deal of success in our society, but we are rarely taught as youngsters how to achieve that success.

Some people do grow up with the expectation that they can succeed and they do. Many, however, grow up with the idea that if they succeed it is because of a lucky break or because they have connections or for some other reason than that they deserve to succeed.

Fortunately, though, thanks to the internet, there are people who can help us learn to succeed and guide us in the right direction. Sometimes all it takes is a session or two with a success coach ( a particular kind of personal or business coach) to help us realize the life of our dreams.

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The path to the past is usually there where you can see it. But trying to spend our energy to travel back there or even to try and live there, doesn’t do us a lot of good.

Spending our energy in our days right now in the present moment is a much better use of our energy. We can remember our past, but live in the now.That works. But trying to live in the memories and come back to the present only for a few moments, leaves our lives as dry and dusty as a desert train track.

 The path to the past

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No Success For You Is A Lie

This Is A Lie, Don't Believe It

We all have an idea of what the word success means and how to get it. Sometimes we perceive it as being out of our reach, sometimes we see it as something far off in the distance, and some time we are certain in our hearts that no mater what we do, that sweet feeling of achieving success is going to remain forever just out of our grasp. An elusive little wisp of an idea, destined to be the prize for someone else but not for us.

We are often told that success is reserved for the few, for the hard working, for the blessed, for the fortunate, for the people who are in the right place at the right time, for the winner.

That there is only so much success to go around and once that is used up, there isn’t any more for anyone else.

That’s Just Shazbat

What a pile of Shazbat. What a great word, thanks Robin Williams.

Success rationed out? Nothing could be further from the truth. You can no more ration out success than you can ration love, or kindness, or courtesy. There is plenty of success to go around, and not only are you entitled to your share of it, but you can have as much as you want.

 

And you having all the success you want can never diminish in any way the capacity of anyone else to enjoy as much success as they want.

 

But Sometimes We Get Confused

Conventional thinking often confuses success and winning a competition. Usually there can be only one winner in a competition. Sometimes more than one, but not too often. And while there might only be one winner, that does not preclude anyone else in the competition from being successful.

Here is an example. Let’s say a group of friends all decide to start their own businesses. And furthermore, they setup a little competition to see who can make the most profit in a year. They all chip in 10 dollars and that will be the prize for the winner. So at the end of they year they bring out their books and take a look at the amount of profits each one of them made.

  • Clarence made a total of 85,000 dollars
  • Adeline made 84,235 dollars
  • Florencio made 82,000

Looking at those numbers, it is pretty easy to tell that Clarence is the winner of the little contest, so he’s going to get the 30 dollar prize. And looking at the numbers again, it is easy to see that each of them was very successful because they each made over 80,000 dollars.

Competition and success are two different ideas and it’s important to see them as being separate. If Adeline and Florencio believed that only the winner of a competition was successful, they could easily think that they were not. But the truth is they are all successful.

Even if we might not think so now, the truth is we can all learn to be successful. To start being successful in our lives, what it really takes is the thought, the idea that we can be successful.

Once that idea is part of you are inside, you will be successful. And if the idea of success is not part of who you are inside, then nothing you do on the outside is ever going to make you into a success.

We can each do this, but sometimes we need a bit of help along the way. Some assistance in changing those long standing ideas about your relationship with success, so that you can create more of the wonderful life you deserve.

helpful smileyThat’s something that a Success Coach can help you with.

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What does a Success Coach do?

A Success Coach helps you be more successful. They help you take care of those things that are keeping you from being successful. Just like other kinds of coaches, they point out stuff you are doing or thinking that is getting in the way of success and they help you in doing the things the you do need to do in order to be successful.

That sounds pretty simple and that’s because it is pretty simple. But it’s kind of like they say about other things, it’s simple, but not necessarily easy.

Working with a coach helps you start from the right place and helps you keep going

 

Truth is, most people do not feel successful in their lives because of certain attitudes they learned along the way. A Success Coach can help you clear those obstacles out of your way and that helps you achieve success in a much shorter amount of time.

And when that clearing away is combined with a solid plan and help along the way, you are going to be jet propelled and unstoppable. And that’s a really, really, really good feeling.

 

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The idea that we are finished, once we have sorted out our beliefs and that we never have to examine them again is a very limiting idea. The truth is that the beliefs we grew up with may not serve us very well at all when we are grown. They might, but then again they might not and it is our responsibility to ourselves to figure that part out.

Once upon a time, when we were just starting out learning new ideas, we had no old beliefs to change. Whatever we accepted into our hearts was true, we had no filters in place to keep ideas away from our hearts. As we walked along a bit farther on the path of our lives, we did put those filters into place, but they only served to protect the beliefs we already had.

Even though our old beliefs had value, they worked for us, brought us comfort and made our journey understandable, sometimes it simply get to the point where we need to replace them, because they just don’t cut it anymore. Then it is time to let them go and get ourselves some shiny new beliefs that work for us in the present moment.

letting go of old beliefs

 

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giant hamburger

I'm Thinking Of You

The law of attraction is a pretty simple idea with lots of profound consequences. If you spend any time at all in the personal development world, particularly on the spiritual side, you have undoubtedly heard of the Law of Attraction, or LOA as it is commonly acronymized online.

In essence, the law works like this:

Everything In the Universe is made from energy.
What makes things appear to differ in the world is certain characteristics.
When two things have similar characteristics, they attract each other.
When they attract each other, they wind up influencing each other.

Now this influencing can take lots of different forms in the physical world. There are basically an infinite amount of possibilities of almost everything in the world, so there are a lot of possible combinations for how things are going to be attracted to each other.

 Not Magic Socks

Now this doesn’t mean all the time that if you like striped socks that your sock drawer is going to magically fill up with striped socks overnight while you are sleeping. It could, given that all things are possible, but is much more likely that if you really, really, really like striped socks and you think about them a lot, that pretty soon a newspaper ad, or something you see on a website online is going to bring you the opportunity to get more striped socks.

Just because you get more socks through going to the store and buying them, does not mean the Law of Attraction does not work. The LOA is not a magic, rub the genie’s lamp kind of process, it is simply the way our world works al the time.

A Perfect Example of the LOA At Work

Here is something that happened this weekend that is a perfect example of the Law of Attraction action.

I woke up Sunday morning, and after having a bit of breakfast, my wife and I started talking about what we are going to do for dinner. Not a big deal, just regular sort of talking and planning our day. I got to thinking to myself that I would really like to have a hamburger. I don’t eat a lot of meat, but every once in a while I really enjoy a nice big hamburger, especially if it’s fixed on the grill outside.

Well, you know how it is with thinking about things to eat, all of a sudden my mouth started watering, and I got this crystal clear image of me eating a hamburger, crispy from the grill and smelling great, with a bit of BBQ sauce. Not overwhelming, just one of those things that happens and I was really enjoying eating this hamburger in my mind.

bbq grill

Time For Grilling

Then I realized that in order to have this hamburger of my dreams in real life I would have to get myself up and going to go to the store, buy the hamburger, some bbq sauce and some more charcoal and lighter fluid. Possible, sure, but, the truth is, its Sunday, and I really didn’t feel like doing all that so much, but truth was, I was still thinking about hamburgers.

So, we’re sitting in the living room just chatting, and our neighbor calls. “Hello”, he says, “Would you guys like to come over for a glass of wine?” “We would really like you to see the new fountain we had installed and it’s a nice to sit by the pool and have a drink”

Sure, we say, that sounds great.

So we get ourselves put together, and walk over to our neighbor’s house. Sure enough the fountain is pretty cool. Aztec masks on the wall with the water pouring out their mouths into a small pool. We get the wine opened and poured and are just sitting around chatting and then he says,

“Would you guys like to stay for a barbecue. All we are having are hamburgers and hot dogs, but it sure would be nice if you could join us.”

And that is how the Law of Attraction works.

And it works all day everyday. It is how our Universe is set up to run, and it is a really simple system.

We decide what we want.
We think thoughts about it and feel feelings about it.
It shows up.
We accept it.

Simple. For sure, there are some things to learn that can make the entire process easier for you without having to worry if you are doing the right thing or not. But the fact is anybody can learn them and use them to bring more of what they want into their lives instead of more of what they don’t want.

So I view getting the hamburger I had been thinking about as a sign from the Universe that everything is on track and working to bring me the things I am spending my thought energy thinking about. Not so highbrow maybe, but the fact is, it works, and I believe it works.

And I like living believing that the Law Of Attraction works like that.  :-)

How about you? Ever have anything like that happen you would be willing to share? If so, please drop us a note in the comment section.

And have yourself an amazing day, you deserve it.

My name is Michael Shook and my mission is to fill the entire internet with positivity. That’s why I publish this website and write a free email service which delivers cool, fun, positive messages to your inbox. Check that out here: Cool Positive Email

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