Growing Up

It is a funny thing sometimes how we decide that growing up is going to be a bad thing. It’s like the older we get; the worse off we are going to be. At least that’s what seems to often be the general consensus. But there are some things about growing that are way different than the usual type of … Read More

Thoughts Are The Actions Of Your Mind

Thoughts are the directed actions of the mind. There are a couple of ideas about what it takes to produce change in our life. Many of these ideas revolve around the concept of work. That making real change in your life, in what you have, in what you get, even in what you see, are the results of doing something … Read More

Life Is Not Hard

There is no rule that says it has to be hard. Well, OK, there might be a rule, but it is only a rule that people made up so that they can tell it to other people who they want to make believe that it is hard. Say what? Boy, if that’s not convoluted, I don’t know what is. Maybe … Read More

Using Your Own Power

Your life is always about you. Some people have a tendency to think that because they have kids to take care of, or parents to take care of, or spouses to take care of or other folks to take care of, that it is not important to take care of themselves. Nothing could be further from the truth. There is … Read More

Change Your Thought Habits

One of messages I have written that I like the best is the one called Cactus and Ice Cream. It goes like this: “So here’s a metaphorical choice for you today, In one hand, you’re holding a cactus In the other hand, you’re holding an ice cream cone. And you have a choice about which you are going to put … Read More

Old Thoughts Vs New Thoughts

Just when you start to think that you can slide those thoughts under the rug, so the Universe won’t hear them, you find that everything you have ever said or ever thought or ever dreamed is still out there in the never-ending memory of the Universe. Doesn’t matter how you think about getting rid of those ugly thoughts; how you … Read More

Seeing is Believing Is Seeing

You can hear around many times that time honored phrase “Seeing is Believing” And while there is some degree of truth in that wording, in actuality the real way it goes is “Believing is Seeing” There is a big difference between those two phrases. Not just in the words but in the implied relationship. The first one could be the … Read More

Time And Scarcity and Happiness

ne of the major ideas that sticks the world together in a particular pattern is the idea of time. You can find many people who talk about the future as if it is going to be better than the life they have now. It is as if they are waiting for some point, for some goal to be reached in … Read More